Absence of salt in soup will make it tasteless. Non-existence of water will make life unbearable for mankind.
A man is not complete without a woman.Allah has the power and authority to leave only Adam in Paradise without Hawau but He created Hawau as a companion and comforter to Prophet Adam (A.S).
The fact that Allah names a chapter suratu Nisai(chapter of women) signifies the importance of women.
Allah describes women in suratu Yusuf as someone whose “trick is great”,ete obirin mu ju Abe lo.Meaning”The trick of women is sharper than razor blade.
All great leaders of the world after a lot of efforts to stop their excesses came down through women.
We have also seen great people who succeeded through the assistance and co-operation of women.Indeed, women are special creatures.
A friend of mine told me about a married woman who confessed to one of our Sheikh when there was misunderstanding with her husband that whenever she woke up for”Tahajjud”(mid-night prayer), her prayers always centered on begging Allah against an increase in the wealth of her husband so that he would not have enough that would enable him marry another wife and Allah accepted the prayers.What a special creature?
I knew the case of a woman who confessed to her friend that she really frustrated her husband till the man died and this woman had six children for her husband.What would she gain from this?
I remember the Hadith of Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w) that women’s number will be high in Jahanam(Hell-fire) because they are not grateful to their husbands and they swear a lot.May Allah make us, our wives and daughters the inhabitants of Paradise (ameen).
A woman can sacrifice her life under the roof of a beast whom she calls husband, who beats and abuses her like animal.If you ask her why she endures,she will simply tell you that”Love is blind”.Indeed, women are special creatures.
There are good and bad men, there are also have good and bad women.May Allah make us good believers who fear Him and always engage in good deeds(ameen). Written by AKANDE, Ayinde Mutiu(Abu Hassan Edaolaropin).