Masturbation is a concern, especially for virgins with strong sxual urges. It involves stimulating the genitls to achieve orgsm. It is Haram according to Islamic law (Shari’ah) and it is harmful to the well-being of one who engages in it. While common, it poses several issues:
1. Mental Fornication: Often done with sexual fantasies, which Islam considers sinful (Quran 23:5-7 says : “And those who guard their chastity, except with their wives or those their right hands possess, for then they are free from blame, but whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors”).
2. Physical Risks: Using objects can cause harm and infection.
3. Impact on Future Enjoyment: Can lead to sexual dissatisfaction in marriage.
4. Sexual Dysfunction: May cause premature or delayed ejcultion. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “O young men, those among you who can support a wife should marry, for it restrains eyes (from casting evil glances) and preserves one from immorality” (Sahih Muslim).
5. Spiritual Consequences: Leads to guilt and spiritual dissatisfaction. Also, since it’s sinful, it can hinder one from the mercy of Allah if such an act is not stopped and repentance must be sought from Allah.
6. Increased Urges: Can intensify sexal fantasies and lead to promiscuity (Quran 24:30 says “Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is acquainted with what they do”).
7. Distorted View of Others: Can result in seeing the opposite gender as mere objects of sex.
To manage sexual urges:
– Avoid pornography and provocative content (Quran 6:151).
– Surround yourself with positive influences and peers.
– Seek Islamic knowledge.
– The Prophet advised fasting for those unable to marry to control their sxual urges.
Masturbation is harmful and sinful (Haram) in Islam. Avoid it for spiritual, emotional, and physical well-being.
✍️Abu Nusaybah
