I was talking to a group of ladies and i asked them, why a lot women don’t enjoy SEX in marriage and this is what they have to say .
Gents let’s read carefully and learn from what our women are saying !
1) As women ,we have been hurt a lot in marriage to an extend that our feelings towards our husbands died a long time ago so sex becomes a burden and something nit enjoyable.
2) When a man cheats, sex for us becomes disgusting.We just do it because we are still married, but the truth is that, we are so bored during intimacy with cheating husbands.
3) Some of our husbands are very unromantic.They don’t even know how foreplay works and they just rush to penetrate which makes sex painful and boring.Spend more time on romance gents ,we enjoy it more than penetration.
4) He spends the whole day without checking on you,then he comes home and focus on his phone but at night he start touching you .Who does that ? At least communicate with me then i can be in the mood
5) How can you enjoy sex when you are not even kissed,touched,massaged or pampered before sex .How do you expect me to be in the mood.
6) A man watches you over-working in the house and doing everything alone without any help,then at night he expects you to be a porn star.With what strength after working like a donkey ?
7) Our men don’t even know that, when you are not emotionally well,sex sucks.You don’t care about my emotional state yet you want me to perform in bed,that won’t happen. Be emotionally available and be supportive gents.
8) Our men are too proud to ask about the things we love during sex.They will be busy sweating amd breathing heavily whilst we feel nothing.We just pretend and make some sounds as if we are enjoying yet we are so bored and wishing that they finish and allow us to rest.
9) Most men are selfish,all they care about is their ejaculation then they sleep.Most of us (women) don’t even know what an orgasm since we got married because they don’t care about our own pleasures as women.
10) How can i enjoy sex with a man who smokes and drinks but after that, he doesn’t brush his teeth or freshen up.This is why sex is disgusting.
11) Some of our men are not hygienic at all. Imagine that a man spends a day at work ,running around and sweating but when he comes home, he gets in the blankets without showering and expect you to enjoy sex.Our men should be serious !
12) Our men should know that we need affection. You can’t expect me to enjoy sex when i’m not receiving affectionate love.Take me out on romantic dinner date and see if we won’t enjoy intimacy after that .
Ladies ,you can add more in the comment section,we are hear to learn and our husbands are listening .There is a list from men too that is coming up .
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