❤️ The Irony of Matrimony
💙The Irony of Matrimony (Women Perspective)
👉 If you choose a woman who works, you have to accept that she may not be able to manage the house entirely.
👉 If you choose a housewife who can take care of you and manage your home completely, you must accept that she doesn’t contribute financially.
👉 If you choose an obedient woman, you must accept that she depends on you and you are responsible for her well-being.
👉 If you decide to be with a strong woman, you have to accept that she is independent and has her own opinions.
👉 If you choose a beautiful woman, you will have to accept the higher expenses that come with it.
👉 If you decide to be with a successful woman, you must understand that she has her own goals and ambitions, along with a strong character.
❤️ Are you ready to accept your package in totality?… Perfection does not exist👌. May Allah bless our homes🤲🏻. Ameen
💙The Irony of Matrimony (Men Perspective)
👉 If you choose a man who is emotionally expressive and open, you have to accept that he may need time to process his feelings and may not always appear “strong” in the traditional sense.
👉 If you choose a man who is emotionally reserved and stoic, you have to accept that he may struggle with openly expressing his emotions or vulnerabilities.
👉 If you choose a man who is financially responsible and careful with spending, you may need to accept that he might not indulge in lavish gifts or spontaneous luxuries.
👉 If you decide to be with a man who enjoys socializing and going out, you must accept that he may occasionally need space to spend time with friends or pursue hobbies.
👉 If you choose a man who is highly attentive and dedicated to your needs, you have to accept that he might expect the same level of attention in return.
👉 If you choose a man who is spiritually grounded and religious, you may need to accept that his faith and principles may influence the choices he makes for the family.
👉 If you choose a man who is adventurous and loves taking risks, you have to accept that stability and predictability might not always be his top priorities.
❤️ Just like women, men come with their strengths and weaknesses. It’s about finding balance, appreciating each other’s differences, and building a strong partnership. Perfection doesn’t exist, but mutual understanding can bring happiness and fulfillment. May Allah bless our marriages 🤲. Ameen.
