Most times, people make the mistake of focusing only on the person they want to marry while overlooking the family they come from.
They forget that their partner is just a small unit of a larger family system.
Marriage is not just a union between two individuals but a connection between two families.
When you study your partner’s family, you gain a deeper understanding of who they truly are, because no one exists in isolation.
The values, attitudes, and behaviors you admire or dislike in your partner often reflect the family that raised them.
So, don’t just look at the man or woman you are in love with, look beyond them.
Take your time to observe their family, understand their background, and see the environment that shaped them.
This broader picture will help you make a wiser and more informed marital decision.